Catherine Stalter

catherine stalter

March 27, 1947 ~ December 29, 2023


Catherine “Cathi” Stalter (née Dunderman), 76, passed away peacefully on December 29, 2023 in Stamford, CT. Born March 27, 1947 in Brooklyn, New York, Cathi was the cherished daughter and youngest of four children to the late Walter H. Dunderman and Margaret E. Dunderman (née Doyle).

She is survived by her son, Steven M. Fortunato (Lisa); her daughter, Dianne K. Braatz (née Fortunato); and her children through marriage: Linda J. Ritter (John), Daniel W. Stalter, Jr (Caryn). In addition, she was the adored grandmother of Thomas, Eva, and Elizabeth Fortunato; Amanda and Toby Braatz; Alex Nuñez; and through marriage, “CathiGram” to JR Ritter (Danielle), Cody Ritter (Robin Delaney), and Emily Glenn (Amy); Courtney James (Jesse), Daniel Stalter III (Nicole), and Hannah Stalter. She was also blessed with many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends, including her dear, lifelong friends, Diane Morton and Anne Hyland.

Cathi is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Daniel W. Stalter; her three brothers, Walter J. Dunderman, John J. Dunderman, and Robert J. Dunderman; and her son through marriage, Edwin Stalter.

She attended St. Rose of Lima Elementary School and graduated from St. Brendan Diocesan High School in Brooklyn. She married John A. Fortunato (deceased) in 1966 and relocated to Englewood Cliffs, NJ where she became very active in the community. She was a paramedic for the Volunteer Ambulance Corps, and worked as a school crossing guard before establishing her career with State Farm Insurance in Jersey City, NJ as an administrator and agent.

She was also very dedicated to her parish at Holy Trinity R.C. Church in Fort Lee, NJ where she and John ran the Youth Group in the late 1970’s and into the 1980’s – which provided a wonderful, safe gathering for the teens of the parish and their friends to engage in fellowship, retreat, community events, and field trips.

She enjoyed camping and fishing throughout her life and cherished many family vacations to Cherrystone Campground on the Chesapeake Bay in Cheriton, VA.

Cathi married her longtime friend, Daniel, in 2002. They lived in Highland Lakes, NJ, with their beloved pup Chessie Girl at their side. She was heartbroken by Danny’s unexpected passing in 2005. She relocated to Stamford, CT in 2013 where she resided for the remainder of her life.

Cathi courageously battled ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis) up until her passing.

The family will receive their friends on Sunday, January 7 from 3-6 pm at the Frank A. Patti and Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Home, 327 Main Street "opposite the Fort Lee Library". The celebration of her funeral mass will be Monday, January 8 at 11:00 am at Holy Trinity R.C. Church, Fort Lee, For condolences, directions, or information call (201) 944-0100 or

In Lieu of Flowers, donations may be made in Catherine’s name to:

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Memorial: January 7, 2024 3:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Frank Patti And Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Directors
327 Main Street
Fort Lee, NJ 07024

Memorial Mass: January 8, 2024 11:00 am - 12:00 pm

Holy Trinity R C Church
2367 Lemonie Avenue
Fort Lee, NJ 07024

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  1. To my dear friend Cathi,
    Where can I begin to describe a 70 year friendship? ❤️
    As our lives shifted and changed, our friendship never did.
    From our long phone conversations, to the camping trips at Wildwood, the late nights gambling in AC…we had so many laughs and good times over the years that I will forever cherish. Rest easy my friend, I love you and will miss you.

    Love your fellow CAD,
    Anne Hyland

  2. We had a lifelong friendship starting before grade school. When we were young we formed a club known as CAD (Cathi, Anne, Diane) and did everything together. We were fortunate to stay friends this long. Even after I moved to NJ we shared family weddings, births, and weekend trips. I will miss her very much.
    Love, Diane Morton

  3. Dianne and family- I’m truly sorry for your loss. May the many happy times you shared bring you peace and comfort now during this difficult time. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. May she rest in peace

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