Jaime Enrique Martinez, Sr.

jaime martinez, sr.

March 12, 1938 ~ October 9, 2020

Jaime Enrique Martinez, Sr., 82, of Jersey City, NJ, passed away on October 9, 2020 with his children by his side. A funeral service will be held at Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Lyndhurst, NJ on Friday, October 16, 2020 at 11:00am. Burial service will immediately follow at Holy Cross Cemetery in North Arlington, NJ at noon. Frank Patti Funeral Home will be handling the funeral arrangements. Due to COVID, all are encouraged to send their thoughts and prayers, Jaime would want everyone to stay safe and healthy. A celebration of life will be held in 2021.
Jaime was born in mountainous, rural Tibes, just north of Ponce, Puerto Rico on March 12, 1938. The tenth of sixteen children, he was orphaned as a young child and raised by his older siblings, especially being cared for by his devoted sister, Alicia and brother Demetrio. With the ambition to build a better life, he started working at the age of 14, when he arrived in New York City. While he worked in many jobs throughout his life, he took special pride in his time and skills as a bookbinder and later, for several decades, as a much-loved concierge for a luxury apartment building on Manhattan’s Upper West Side.
Experiencing difficult circumstances from a young age, Jaime always remained grateful and humble. With his infectious sense of humor and wit, he enjoyed so many of the simple things in life and several hobbies especially in his retirement. He enjoyed carpentry and caring for the family dogs, gardening and playing billiards. Some of his favorite times were spent helping in the caring of his grandchildren or simply having conversations about current events, politics, or his beloved Puerto Rico while enjoying a cold beer or good rum with family and friends. His greatest passion in life, however, was reserved for his wife of 58 years, Emilia, and the family they created. His adoration and devotion to Emilia went beyond the love of a wife by a husband, he often credited her for saving his life and giving it meaning. Upon her death in August 2020, just 9 weeks ago, his heart was broken and never recovered.
Jaime’s devotion to his wife was only matched by his love and pride for the family he built. He is survived by his son Jaime Enrique, Jr., his identical twin daughters Christina and Constance, his youngest daughter, Mercedes, his grandchildren, Jessie Alexandra, Sabrina Christina, Thomas Scott, Chloe Emilia, Chelsea, Emilio, great grandson, Niccolo James, his daughter-in-law Migdalia, his sons-in-law, Scott and Luis, his sisters, Alicia, Angela, Yolanda, Florentina, and Delia, his brothers, Jandin, Guadalupe, Hector, Alejandro, and Ronaldo, and his many beloved cousins, and wonderful nieces and nephews.
The family wishes to extend their gratitude for any memorial donations made to a favorite charity of their own choosing in Jaime’s name and memory. He would have been especially pleased for donations to charities, such as Save the Children, that are committed to the struggling children of Puerto Rico, and Iglesias Pentecostal Misionera Luz y Salvacion (HC-01 Box 4683-1, Naguabo, PR 00718-9723).


Funeral Mass: October 16, 2020 11:00 am - 11:45 am

Our Lady Of Mt. Carmel R.C.Church
146 Copeland Avenue
Lyndhurst, NJ 07670

Interment: October 16, 2020 12:00 pm - 12:30 pm

Holy Cross Cemetery
340 Ridge Road
North Arlington, NJ 07032

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  1. Mr. Martinez was a kind gentleman. May he rest in peace with his wonderful wife, Emilia. Both of you are in my thoughts and prayers. You will watch over your beautiful family.

    My condolences to The Martinez family,



  2. My wonderful Papi. We will miss your wonderful smile, your mischievous ways and your sense of humor. You made every celebration funny and happy. Thank you for being the kind, gentle person you were. Loving you always. Conita

  3. Papi, I will miss our walks and our goofy antics. You showed me what true strength looks like, and how kindness, love, and faith will always prevail. Forever in my heart. I am glad you are now peacefully with Mami looking over us.

  4. Dear Christine and Family, the physical separation from our family members, those who have been in our lives for very prolonged periods of time, whom we have loved, shared our victories and our struggles, received love and support; is a very difficult task for all of us. Jaime Enrique and Emilia built a very resilient family, loving and supportive of each other. It was All, about Family. It was Family and it is Family the place we feel safe, and can also be vulnerable, cause that is what family is all about, a safe haven, an anchor, a port where we can find peace and love. That is what you all received and where exposed to for 58 wonderful years. Jaime Enrique and Emilia did a beautiful job with this family, may his memories live forever, as you sip a Puerto Rican coffee, listen to the Aguinaldos, have conversations, walks on the park and celebrate family time.

  5. I believe my father in law would agree if I said that we had a very special relationship for the past 30 yrs. So much so that we developed a unique way of communicating with each other, which required me to create a decryption dictionary. This fostered a great deal of laughter and banter, which I enjoyed immensely. I am so honored to have had the privilege of his attention, kindness and love. His dedication and affection for his grandchildren was demonstrated by his optimism and patience in engaging them in a variety of hobbies/interests and his attentiveness towards indulging them with their favorite treats. His four children were his pride and joy and he modeled for them resilience, honesty, a strong work ethic, and the importance of family. My mother in law was his best friend and his true love. I am eternally grateful for the family he created and for embracing me like his daughter. Love you, Abuelito…Alli…Alli

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