Kenneth John Messink

kenneth messink

May 9, 1963 ~ July 6, 2019

Kenneth John Messink, age 56, of Manalapan, on July 6, 2019. He was born in Brooklyn, grew up in Marlboro, and a lifelong resident of North Monmouth County. Beloved husband of Maurine nee; Boyle. Devoted father of Ryan, Jessica, Luke, Nicholas & Sarah. Cherished son of Maria (Lopez) and the late William Messink. Dear brother of Michael Messink and his wife Barbara. Loving uncle of Jennifer, Nicole & Michael William.

The family will receive their friends on Thursday 4:00 – 8:00 pm at the Clayton & McGirr Funeral Home, 100 Elton-Adelphia Road, (Route 524) Freehold, NJ 07728. All are asked to Assemble for the celebration of his funeral mass in Saint Rose Of Lima R.C Church, 16 McLean Street, Freehold, NJ at 11:00 AM. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering, please specify on form: Lymphoma Foundation,

For condolences, directions, or information call (732) 462-0101 or


Mass: July 12, 2019 11:00 am

St. Rose of Lima R.C Church
16 MCLean Street
Freehold, NJ 07728

Visitation: July 11, 2019 4:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Clayton & McGirr Funeral Home
100 Elton Adelphia Road
Freehold, NJ 07728

Burial: July 12, 2019 12:00 pm

St. Rose of Lima Cemetery
299 Freehold Englishtown Road
Freehold, NJ 07728

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  1. My deepest condolences Maurine and Messink Family. You and your children are in my thoughts and heart. Prayers up for peace, comfort, strength and love during this sorrowful time. Kenny was certainly loved by everyone surrounding him. He will be truly missed by all whose life he touched.

  2. Maurine, to you and all your beautiful children, we are so very sorry to hear about Kenny. We all truly loved him so very much. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. We love you all!

    Ellen, Matt and Brayden

  3. My deepest sympathies to all who are mourning the loss of Ken — Kenny as we called him in high school. He was a genuinely nice guy. I pray that his memory will put a smile on your faces for years to come.

  4. I’ll always have a lot of love for you. I loved working for you and you for the positive influence you had on my life. My prayers and thoughts are with your wife and family.

  5. Our deepest condolences, Maureen, to you and the kids. We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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