Totaro, Ralph age 86, of Edgewater, on January 30, 2016. He was born in Hoboken, NJ and was the Superintendent for State Farm Insurance, Costa Mesa, CA. Beloved husband of Kathleen nee: Montejano. Devoted father of Tamara Talbott, Christina Anguiano, Christopher Totaro, Lisabeth Harmsen, and Jeffrey Totaro. Cherished grandfather of Cole, Chancey, Cooper, Houston, Alexandra, Delaney, Samuel and Sebastian. Loving brother of Rosemarie Foley and Phyllis Jennings. Beloved pets Junebug & Olive. The family will receive their friends on Friday 9:30 – 10:30 AM at the Frank A. Patti and Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Home 327 Main Street "opposite the Fort Lee Library". The funeral will leave Friday at 10:30 AM for the celebration of his funeral mass in Holy Rosary R.C Church at 11:00 AM. For condolences, directions, or information call (201) 944-0100 or www.frankpatti.com