Ralph Totaro

ralph totaro

June 30, 1929 ~ January 30, 2016

Totaro, Ralph age 86, of Edgewater, on January 30, 2016. He was born in Hoboken, NJ and was the Superintendent for State Farm Insurance, Costa Mesa, CA. Beloved husband of Kathleen nee: Montejano. Devoted father of Tamara Talbott, Christina Anguiano, Christopher Totaro, Lisabeth Harmsen, and Jeffrey Totaro. Cherished grandfather of Cole, Chancey, Cooper, Houston, Alexandra, Delaney, Samuel and Sebastian. Loving brother of Rosemarie Foley and Phyllis Jennings. Beloved pets Junebug & Olive. The family will receive their friends on Friday 9:30 – 10:30 AM at the Frank A. Patti and Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Home 327 Main Street "opposite the Fort Lee Library". The funeral will leave Friday at 10:30 AM for the celebration of his funeral mass in Holy Rosary R.C Church at 11:00 AM. For condolences, directions, or information call (201) 944-0100 or www.frankpatti.com


Mass: February 5, 2016 11:00 am

Holy Rosary RC Church
26 Edgewater Place
Edgewater, NJ 07020

Visitation at Funeral Home: February 5, 2016 9:00 am - 10:30 am

Frank A. Patti & Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Home
327 Main Street
Fort Lee, NJ 07024

Final Resting Place:

Rosedale Crematory
408 Orange Road
Montclair, NJ 07042

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  1. Holding the light for a wonderful man, absolutely devoted to his family. Say hi to Francis for us!

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  2. Sending tremendous love and energy to you Kathy and the family. Ralph was a very lucky man to have you as his wife and such a wonderful family to support him through his life and ultimately through his transition. I know he will be dearly missed by all his family and friends.

  3. I was sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. He was a great guy to work with. I saw him not to long ago I didn't know anything was wrong. My condolences to all of his family and friends.



  4. Kathy and family,

    We are so sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

    Alice and Larry Cather

  5. Ralph was a great guy and I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. You have our deepest condolences. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.


    Thomas and Paula Fisher

  6. With deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences for your loss. Prayers are being sent to Heaven for Ralph and his family. He now lives with the angels!

  7. Kathy and family, We are so sorry to hear of Ralph's death. I have great memories of when working in Costa Mesa. He was quite a character:) Our thoughts go out to all of Ralph's family. Carole & Thom

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