Thomas Anthony Lampson

thomas lampson

October 28, 1945 ~ July 11, 2020

Lampson, Thomas Anthony, age 74, of North Bergen and New York City, on Saturday July 11, 2020 following a short illness. Devoted son to Mary Palumbo and of deceased Joseph Lampson. Loving Nephew to Aunts Margaret Monsees, Anna Palumbo, and pre-deceased Aunts and Uncles, his cousins and dearest colleagues at Lorin Marsh in NYC and all his associates in the Interior Design Industry and many close friends including his dearest friend Bob who died in 2017. Predeceased by his dear brother Joseph Albert Lampson who died in 1958 also on July 11th. Tom loved life and People and was a true New York Gentleman who will be greatly missed. The family will receive their friends on Thursday 9-10:30 AM at the Frank A. Patti and Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Home 327 Main Street “opposite the Fort Lee Library”. The funeral will leave Thursday at 10:30 AM for the celebration of his funeral mass in Main Madonna Church at 11:00 AM. In Lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tom’s memory to: The Humane Society. For condolences, directions, or information or call (201) 944-0100.


Funeral Mass: July 16, 2020 11:00 am - 11:45 am

Main Madonna R.C Church
340 Main Street
Fort Lee, NJ 07024

Viewing: July 16, 2020 9:00 am - 10:30 am

Frank Patti And Kenneth Mikatarian Funeral Directors
327 Main Street
Fort Lee, NJ 07024

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  1. To Tom
    From when we first met in 1992 at the Great Barrier Reef in Australia and when you welcomed me when I first arrived in New York City in 1995, you were then and always a true charming and fun friend, we had a lovely long friendship, New York, Out East, Miami, London, Palm Springs, it was my honor to know you. God Bless my friend.

  2. Dear Tom, I miss you already so much and cannot believe you have left this earth so soon—too soon. You have always been such an important person in my life since we first became friends in 2008. Your warmth, your thoughtfulness, your humor, and your craziness always made me so happy and feeling so lucky to have you in my life. NYC will never be the same for me—and all who knew you—without you there. I will always remember the many fun dinners, dancing, art shows, and shopping we shared. You were a true gentleman and such a good soul to so many. You were just the best!! My only consolation is knowing that you are not in pain anymore and you are in Heaven with your dear brother and Bob. I loved you dearly and will miss you forever. Barbara

  3. My dearest friend & partner in crime Tom, it has been a wonderful ride being with you through thick & thin all these years.
    I wasn't expecting you to depart so soon but I guess you had other plans as you always used to say be ahead of any trouble.
    You left a big whole in my heart & you will always be my elegant Bertie with a glass of Champagne ready to play. Mario & I will be at peace as you are with God not suffering surrounded by dear Bob & your little brother. I will miss you & love you forever !!!

  4. I met Tom through my mother in law. He was an amazing, supportive, and dear friend of hers. I got to know him a bit after my mother in law had an accident last summer. He was at the hospital every day and continued to be there for her when she came home. He was a fun, caring, endearing, and a lovely person. A toast to you Tom! May you rest in peace and keep dancing!

  5. I am so sorry for your loss. Tom and I went through grammar and high school together. While we lost touch we were good friends when young. I cannot express my sorrow enough. Prayers are with you all.

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